Question

[bb224]

I leave in Los Angeles and in LA when I get to know a female the first thing or second thing they ask is how much money you make or do you own a house its all about money is this every where??

[PhoneWhore Karen]

I leave in Los Angeles and in LA when I get to know a female the first thing or second thing they ask is how much money you make or do you own a house its all about money is this every where??

Yes.

So, how much money DO you make?

[bb224]

Yes.

So, how much money DO you make?

I make enough money thats not the problem the thing is that they only want you for your money

[PhoneWhore Karen]

I make enough money thats not the problem the thing is that they only want you for your money

True.

So can I have some money? I take paypal.

[bb224]

True.

So can I have some money? I take paypal.


Funny I take credit cards also....

[AngelaBunny]

It really doesn't matter to me how much money the guy makes. All that matters to me is how much I mean to him and if he is willing to go the distance emtionally, physically, and mentally. Money has nothing to do with Love in my opinion.

[johnnybegood]

I leave in Los Angeles and in LA when I get to know a female the first thing or second thing they ask is how much money you make or do you own a house its all about money is this every where??

Does the pope wear funny hats? :confused:

Does a bear shit in the woods? :confused:

Have you been livin on a deserted Island? :confused:

An I got news for ya dude, it guys too...

Some people are just searchin for whats real.... Some are searchin for whats real easy...

Wake up and smell the coffee.

And if your lucky and find someone that is more interested in you that what you have give it a second look, for that is probably the last of a dying breed...

A genuine person! :cool:

[bb224]

It really doesn't matter to me how much money the guy makes. All that matters to me is how much I mean to him and if he is willing to go the distance emtionally, physically, and mentally. Money has nothing to do with Love in my opinion.

I am in the wrong State then because its not only me my friends have the same challenge

[primarilybored30]

Seattle is the same...I would say that 9 out of the first 10 woman I was with all had the same question...So what do yuo drive? Then of course Do you own your own house? But I cant blame them...I married the money maker!!!!

[Danger Kitty's Guy]

Here's the good part about that....
So long as they "THINK" you've got money, they'll do ANYTHING you want them to, & you don't need to spend a dime on them! If that's all they're into, give them what they deserve.
Just remember:
*Ferrari's are a pain in the ass.. Always in the shop. ...Just like YOURS is right now.
*Your summer house on the beach is being "REMODLED". That's why you're staying at.....
* Damn Broker just cost you a half a million! ...It's a good thing you have the bulk of your investments with the guy you Dad recommended!
Capice?
There are lots of nice women out there. Just pay attention to what they ask you & what they tell you. You can weed the gold diggers out pretty easily. Those are the one's you "Hit n Run".

[bb224]

Seattle is the same...I would say that 9 out of the first 10 woman I was with all had the same question...So what do yuo drive? Then of course Do you own your own house? But I cant blame them...I married the money maker!!!!

I guess its not about who I am any more its about how much I have

[primarilybored30]

damn that coffee smells good dont it? :eek: J/K :D

[johnnybegood]

Here's the good part about that....
So long as they "THINK" you've got money, they'll do ANYTHING you want them to, & you don't need to spend a dime on them! If that's all they're into, give them what they deserve.
Just remember:
*Ferrari's are a pain in the ass.. Always in the shop. ...Just like YOURS is right now.
*Your summer house on the beach is being "REMODLED". That's why you're staying at.....
* Damn Broker just cost you a half a million! ...It's a good thing you have the bulk of your investments with the guy you Dad recommended!
Capice?
There are lots of nice women out there. Just pay attention to what they ask you & what they tell you. You can weed the gold diggers out pretty easily. Those are the one's you "Hit n Run".

Hey DKG... Long time!

Good answers! :cool:

[bb224]

Here's the good part about that....
So long as they "THINK" you've got money, they'll do ANYTHING you want them to, & you don't need to spend a dime on them! If that's all they're into, give them what they deserve.
Just remember:
*Ferrari's are a pain in the ass.. Always in the shop. ...Just like YOURS is right now.
*Your summer house on the beach is being "REMODLED". That's why you're staying at.....
* Damn Broker just cost you a half a million! ...It's a good thing you have the bulk of your investments with the guy you Dad recommended!
Capice?
There are lots of nice women out there. Just pay attention to what they ask you & what they tell you. You can weed the gold diggers out pretty easily. Those are the one's you "Hit n Run".

You are right but I am not about hit and run I have a lots of love and passion and I like to share it with the right person and I keep meeting the same personalities, so I get to change me ways of being so I meet the person that I deserve, and they deserve me

[Danger Kitty's Guy]

You are right but I am not about hit and run I have a lots of love and passion and I like to share it with the right person and I keep meeting the same personalities, so I get to change me ways of being so I meet the person that I deserve, and they deserve me

Hey...I was just messing around.

I'm glad to hear that you are they way you are. I'm sure it's not an easy task. I met "Mrs. Right" 20 years ago & we've been married for 17 of them.
I wish I could give you some real advice or direction, but I'm not the least bit in tune with the "Dating World" of today.
Good luck & keep your standards in place. ..She's out there somewhere ...looking for YOU!

[bb224]

Hey...I was just messing around.

I'm glad to hear that you are they way you are. I'm sure it's not an easy task. I met "Mrs. Right" 20 years ago & we've been married for 17 of them.
I wish I could give you some real advice or direction, but I'm not the least bit in tune with the "Dating World" of today.
Good luck & keep your standards in place. ..She's out there somewhere ...looking for YOU!


THANK YOU

[fd4130]

It really doesn't matter to me how much money the guy makes. All that matters to me is how much I mean to him and if he is willing to go the distance emtionally, physically, and mentally. Money has nothing to do with Love in my opinion.
Well stated Sweety ;)

[kellbell05]

Well put Angela...:)...I think I have already heard this before with my old thread...

[AngelaBunny]

Thank You fd and Kell! ;)

[johnnybegood]

You are right but I am not about hit and run I have a lots of love and passion and I like to share it with the right person and I keep meeting the same personalities, so I get to change me ways of being so I meet the person that I deserve, and they deserve me


Hey bb...

You sound young but well founded...

DKG has given you some sound advice..

Dont change who you are or your way of being, if you have to change who you are they probably arent worth your time, further, the person you become involved with should know you for who you are, truely!

OBTW, stop looking!!! I think youll find that the best things in life will come to you when you are least expecting them.

Finally... Be real, some people go thier whole life looking for someone, and they become so enfatuated with the idea of finding someone that you end up fooling yourself and ultimately you end up in a bad relationship and you have no one to blame but youself....

And the number one primo rule...... (drum roll) be a gentleman and be cool! :cool:

Take your time... Life is a journey not a destination!

[blueeyesindallas]

yes indeed angela....very well put

[AngelaBunny]

I knew at least YOU would agree with me

[cunlingus]

I always say it depends on the girl and what is lacking remember a girl doesnt like to have a lazy ass and broke fucker at the same time, but if she does have someone like that dhe will def try to find someone with money. Basically depends how the girl was raised and how mature she is bc whatever is lacking will def make her want to get it. like if u make ok but never take her out she will look for a guy that will and if he has dough then there you go. But yeah there are some girls that are just looking for money but they are either unhappy or are cheating on their man. remember a women has emotions and unless u care for everything good enough but more abot her emotions then u are straight. :D

[bb224]

Hey bb...

You sound young but well founded...

DKG has given you some sound advice..

Dont change who you are or your way of being, if you have to change who you are they probably arent worth your time, further, the person you become involved with should know you for who you are, truely!

OBTW, stop looking!!! I think youll find that the best things in life will come to you when you are least expecting them.

Finally... Be real, some people go thier whole life looking for someone, and they become so enfatuated with the idea of finding someone that you end up fooling yourself and ultimately you end up in a bad relationship and you have no one to blame but youself....

And the number one primo rule...... (drum roll) be a gentleman and be cool! :cool:

Take your time... Life is a journey not a destination!

well said thank you

[cunlingus]

johnnybegood that was perfect. that is the info I wish to try to tell you but he got it right.

[BlkKitty]

Funny...I like this thread. My advise comes from my mother, the first three questions are all you need to know about a person. These questions speak to motive and priority. If one of those first questions aren't, what do you like to do, or what are you passionate about, then kick them to the curb. You also need to be sure of what you are passionate about. And not all women that ask those questions are gold diggers, some are just as frustrated as you, because some boys have become that way also. She may want to find out that you are bring to the table as much as she is. You wouldn't believe how many people of both sexes, who only have sex to offer a person.

[bb224]

Funny...I like this thread. My advise comes from my mother, the first three questions are all you need to know about a person. These questions speak to motive and priority. If one of those first questions aren't, what do you like to do, or what are you passionate about, then kick them to the curb. You also need to be sure of what you are passionate about. And not all women that ask those questions are gold diggers, some are just as frustrated as you, because some boys have become that way also. She may want to find out that you are bring to the table as much as she is. You wouldn't believe how many people of both sexes, who only have sex to offer a person.


You are right i never looked at it that way.. Thank you

[love2suck]

I leave in Los Angeles and in LA when I get to know a female the first thing or second thing they ask is how much money you make or do you own a house its all about money is this every where??
well it doesn't cross my mind.....i look for the face first, personality then body....for the record my parents are quite wealthy so money in a man is NOTHING...i need someone to share my money with in the future years......and yes, i get asked how big my house is and what i earn to, as most women also wood.....fortunately i was blessed with a great family who have done well for themselves and helped me along the way ;)
its all in the cock for me when i am on the hunt ;)

[mike_st_louis]

well it doesn't cross my mind.....i look for the face first, personality then body....for the record my parents are quite wealthy so money in a man is NOTHING...i need someone to share my money with in the future years......and yes, i get asked how big my house is and what i earn to, as most women also wood.....fortunately i was blessed with a great family who have done well for themselves and helped me along the way ;)
its all in the cock for me when i am on the hunt ;)

Well, I hate to generalize, but I've spent a fair amount of time in
LA and a lot of LA people are shallow and superficial. Of course, it does cost a lot to live in LA, so maybe that's one reason they put so much emphasis on money.

[justjohn]

I'm convinced that 99% of the women out there are interested in how much money a man has first, then looks, then dick. After all, the divorced woman's mantra is--I married the first time for love, the second time for money. I've experienced it for nearly 20 years now.

[TheWife]

I'm convinced that 99% of the women out there are interested in how much money a man has first, then looks, then dick. After all, the divorced woman's mantra is--I married the first time for love, the second time for money. I've experienced it for nearly 20 years now.

I would disagree with that statement!!!!!!!!
I could care less how much money a man makes..personality comes first everything else is second

[alfadawg01]

My kinda woman!

[BlkKitty]

I'm convinced that 99% of the women out there are interested in how much money a man has first, then looks, then dick. After all, the divorced woman's mantra is--I married the first time for love, the second time for money. I've experienced it for nearly 20 years now.

I think that every women is interested in different things and the order that come in would be up to the women...but, I am will to wager that if you could see the dick first it would change a women's preference quick.

I for one would say that its dick, money, looks... :D

[scorpio842]

Most of the women I know have all admitted to me that Dick aint never going to be that good, its the money trust me. The older women get the more important security becomes. We men never change. We will always chase those panties. Money makes it easier.

[BlkKitty]

If that were true then men with little or no money would never get any...women lie so much.

[Selene]

It's actually how a person makes you feel. If it was looks and money, then all the Brad Pitt/Jennifer Aniston type couples would stay together. It's the internal/chemical reaction you have with someone that makes it work and how that person makes you feel.