View Full Version : How do you mend a broken heart?
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 01:12 AM
and how do you try not give up on LOVE? :(
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 01:20 AM
Well, for me it's the belief that just because it didn't work with one person doesn't mean it on't work with someone else.
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 01:27 AM
Well, for me it's the belief that just because it didn't work with one person doesn't mean it on't work with someone else.
I am terrified of falling in love again- I love tooooooooooooooo hard and it seems to be my downfall and the fear of being hurt, I think is what has kept me here so long - I am married and broken hearted because I don't feel that I am being loved the way I should be- I feel empty inside and afraid to try to remedy the situation
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 01:29 AM
I am terrified of falling in love again- I love tooooooooooooooo hard and it seems to be my downfall and the fear of being hurt, I think is what has kept me here so long - I am married and broken hearted because I don't feel that I am being loved the way I should be- I feel empty inside and afraid to try to remedy the situation
I love tooooo hard and toooooo fast. I don't fear the broken heart, but because I fall so fast, it does tend to happen.
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 01:31 AM
I love tooooo hard and toooooo fast. I don't fear the broken heart, but because I fall so fast, it does tend to happen.
I think I break the record for falling fast, I think I might be falling for someone I know little about ,never met and it is SCARY as hell
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 01:33 AM
I think I break the record for falling fast, I think I might be falling for someone I know little about ,never met and it is SCARY as hell
I know. are you learning about him more?
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 01:37 AM
I know. are you learning about him more?
I am, thats the part that keeps that little spark in my heart saying "ok girl don't give up yet" his personality is what hooked me and we seem to think a lot alike.....................it's just SCARY as hell
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 01:40 AM
I am, thats the part that keeps that little spark in my heart saying "ok girl don't give up yet" his personality is what hooked me and we seem to think a lot alike.....................it's just SCARY as hell
Well keep working on it. And I know what you mean about the scary part.
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 01:44 AM
Well keep working on it. And I know what you mean about the scary part.
Thanks I will. (I guess)
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 01:48 AM
Thanks I will. (I guess)
I know you will. Don't be scared. ;)
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 01:52 AM
I know you will. Don't be scared. ;)
I will try to conquer my fears and dive into the unknown or the abyss of eternal longing (my poetic moment- hehehe) ;)
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 01:53 AM
I will try to conquer my fears and dive into the unknown or the abyss of eternal longing (my poetic moment- hehehe) ;)
Are you two trying to meet?
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 01:58 AM
Are you two trying to meet?
I know I am - I am DYING to meet him and see and feel him in person
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 01:59 AM
I know I am - I am DYING to meet him and see and feel him in person
I hope you two get together soon!
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 02:01 AM
I hope you two get together soon!
You and me both, there is so much to do :p and say when we do meet
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 02:03 AM
You and me both, there is so much to do :p and say when we do meetI can imagine, sex and talk, then sex and talk, then sex.....
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 02:06 AM
I can imagine, sex and talk, then sex and talk, then sex.....
hehehe you got it! Gosh we think alike ;)
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 02:10 AM
hehehe you got it! Gosh we think alike ;)
I have noticed that! :D
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 02:13 AM
I have noticed that! :D
;) :p :D
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 02:17 AM
;) :p :D
Yes I know......
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 02:20 AM
Yes I know......
you have my permission to do it then :p
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 02:23 AM
you have my permission to do it then :p
:p :D
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 02:27 AM
:p :D
well :p :p :p :p :p away then :D
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 02:29 AM
Carefull now. I may end up in a position where I can do just that!
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 02:33 AM
Carefull now. I may end up in a position where I can do just that!
I will be waiting to hear the news :D
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 02:35 AM
I will be waiting to hear the news :D
:o ;)
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 02:38 AM
:o ;)
quick question- how do you know when you are falling for someone and not the idea of being in love? :confused:
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 02:40 AM
quick question- how do you know when you are falling for someone and not the idea of being in love? :confused:
I was wondering that myself.
Chocalate darling
10-20-2006, 02:46 AM
I was wondering that myself.
I know what I am feeling and it is strong and new and I just want to be safe with my heart and feelings as well as the other persons
muffdiver13
10-20-2006, 02:53 AM
I know what I am feeling and it is strong and new and I just want to be safe with my heart and feelings as well as the other personsMe too, I worry that I love too fast.
Humans are made to love and our "being" is not complte if you don't love. But the only way not to get hurt is not to love. Just seal yourself away. The only guarantee in life is that you die. There are no guarantees on love.
And you my dear, you are not that kind of person. You have much to give.
First you need to give yourself a little time to heal. If we help you at all we are glad. Then don't be afraid. Fear will only seal your heart up tighter.
I wrote this for Studman but it's always how I have felt and I think others have felt the same way. (I think this is what you are looking for) There is someone for you out there - just don't give up and turn into someone who is not worth the love of that special person.
I have loved you from the day my soul was made;
I have known and loved you always;
Through time and space.
I knew you were there and now that I finally found you
I am complete.
You are the end of a long journey to love.
STUDMAN
10-21-2006, 04:58 PM
Humans are made to love and our "being" is not complte if you don't love. But the only way not to get hurt is not to love. Just seal yourself away. The only guarantee in life is that you die. There are no guarantees on love.
And you my dear, you are not that kind of person. You have much to give.
First you need to give yourself a little time to heal. If we help you at all we are glad. Then don't be afraid. Fear will only seal your heart up tighter.
I wrote this for Studman but it's always how I have felt and I think others have felt the same way. (I think this is what you are looking for) There is someone for you out there - just don't give up and turn into someone who is not worth the love of that special person.
I have loved you from the day my soul was made;
I have known and loved you always;
Through time and space.
I knew you were there and now that I finally found you
I am complete.
You are the end of a long journey to love.
Did I say how much this woman means too me. If I didn't, "the world" !!!
Did I say how much this woman means too me. If I didn't, "the world" !!!
amen
STUDMAN
10-21-2006, 05:05 PM
amen
:D :D :D
BlkKitty
10-22-2006, 06:45 PM
and how do you try not give up on LOVE? :(
I think that first you have to be honest with yourself. I think alot of people lack that honesty, because they don't take time to reflect on their actions in a relationship as much as they do the other person. I took a long look at my life and what I need. I believe that God spoke to me and informed me that "you can never ask no more from a person, than you yourself are willing to give." Since, I have realized that I am not in a position to love or to give a love my full attention.
So as for how do you love again, a question to ask before you love is whether or not you are emotionally, physically, mentally, are financially in a position to love someone. I say financially, because, some people get into a relationship with someone under the umbrella of need and then when the necessity for that person is no longer there they realize that they truly did not love them, it was a relationship of convinence.