Ok.. I Need A Womans View

[JDONA444]

I Was Engaged For Two Years. We Lived In Oklahoma Together, I Wasnt The Best Of A Man For Her, I Was A Great Provider, But A Lousey Man. (at Least I Realized My Short Comings).

We Split Up Earlier This Year, But Last Week She Calls To Tell Me She Is In Oklahoma. I Asked Her Why, And Her And Some Friends Are Going To A Concert. I Told Her I Wish I Could Rewind And Start Over. I Told Her That Everywhere I Am I Always Think Of Her. Well Right Before We Hung Up, She Told Me she Loved Me.ok,so I Called Her The Next Day, Saent Her For A Massage, So She Could Relax On A Day Off.

So We Talked A Little More, She Says She Needs A Friend More That Anything. I Agreed( I Would Rather Be A Freind Than Not To Have Her In My Life At All.)

So Sun, We Spent Three Hours Together. Talking, Shopping, Walking. I Thougt I Saw A Little Twinkle In Her Eye. I Told Her I Saw It, And She Didnt Deny Of Confirm.

Am I Reading Into This, Or Is There Still A Chance? Please Help Ladies..

[Mom]

So you screwed up; did you learn from your screwups; are you willing to change - if you did and are - then tell her and see what happens because it sure sounds to me that there is a chance. Good Luck

[JDONA444]

Thanks Mom, Ive Been Trying To Tell Her That. Well Until That Phone Call That Night, She Has Shown Nothing But Hostility Towards Me.. I Really Hury Her, And I Feel Bad About It. Shes My Best Friend Reguardless Of How It Turns Out

[quivers]

I agree with MOM,
Take it slow, I love happy endings!

[JDONA444]

Thank You. Im Hoping For The Happy Ending Thing. The Ole Saying That You Dont Realize What You Have Til Its Gone Thing Is True

[kellbell05]

Good Luck JDONA....

[Sweet]

Here's my 02 cents. If she didn't share some of the same feelings you are having right now...she wouldn't have ANYTHING to do with you right now. There's obviously a glimmer of hope in her mind as well.

Here's the thing with us hormonal women :rolleyes: We think too much. She's probably thought back a million times to how you hurt her...and everytime she becomes vulnerable for your love, touch, etc......she puts up a small guard (hostility) because she doesn't want to get hurt again.

The best thing you can do (if you truly love and her and want it to work out) is be patient. Let her see that you've come a long way since the break up of your engagement.

Anything/anyone worth having is well worth the wait.....good luck JDONA. ;) Keep us posted.

[wilko43]

I agree, take it slow and be that friend she needs. i suspect she still loves you and one day, probably not to far away, she'll remember why she loved you at the beginning. Good luck, i hope it turns out as you hope

[Pam79]

Don't you just love the show Walk The Line. He screwed up plenty of times. He was patient and in the end he got the woman of his dreams.