View Full Version : How do we do it?
muffdiver13
10-24-2006, 02:20 PM
It seems that a number of us are in Long Distant Relationships. Mom and I were just discusing this topic, How do we survive day after day away from our lovers? Mom talked of not being able to breath. I have told my lady more than once, it' like I'm missing a part of me, part of my heart. Especilly now, as we draw nearer to our next meeting, I actually feel worse, more empty.
How about the rest of you, how do you cope?
paint; cold showers; phone calls; internet; video cameras -it ain't easy but it is sure worth it. I would rather have 1 day more in my life with him than the rest of my life with anyone else - its just that simple. I choose him;
We all need shirts that say "First Class Member of the Nut-Up Club".
You just nut-up and do it. One breath at a time
muffdiver13
10-24-2006, 02:47 PM
I just concentrate on the next trip down there, and job hunting in her area. As long as I'm in play for a job, there is hope.
oh yea - these brain cells are not dead yet - Muff I just figured out how to get Stud to the Ranch, the Wyoming Ranch, with no company here for a weekend in about 3 weeks - if he will just do it
muffdiver13
10-24-2006, 07:47 PM
oh yea - these brain cells are not dead yet - Muff I just figured out how to get Stud to the Ranch, the Wyoming Ranch, with no company here for a weekend in about 3 weeks - if he will just do it
If he ahs any brain cells, he will!
Chocalate darling
10-24-2006, 07:49 PM
It seems that a number of us are in Long Distant Relationships. Mom and I were just discusing this topic, How do we survive day after day away from our lovers? Mom talked of not being able to breath. I have told my lady more than once, it' like I'm missing a part of me, part of my heart. Especilly now, as we draw nearer to our next meeting, I actually feel worse, more empty.
How about the rest of you, how do you cope?
I have never been in a ldr, but my take on it is if you find love anywhere no matter the distance cherish it and if you think your LOVE could be long distance you owe it to yourself to go after it, because true love is so rare I would consider it a sin not to go for it, and that "empty feeling is a tell-tell sign that it could be the real thing, my hats go off to people in ldr because you have to love harder and more intense to keep it alive.(just my take on it) ;)
kellbell05
10-24-2006, 07:51 PM
It seems that a number of us are in Long Distant Relationships. Mom and I were just discusing this topic, How do we survive day after day away from our lovers? Mom talked of not being able to breath. I have told my lady more than once, it' like I'm missing a part of me, part of my heart. Especilly now, as we draw nearer to our next meeting, I actually feel worse, more empty.
How about the rest of you, how do you cope?
I know what you mean Muff....its been along time since I have seen Paint and my heart is aching for him....but at least we still have the phone calls to each other when we can....
Chocalate darling
10-24-2006, 07:54 PM
I have never been in a ldr, but my take on it is if you find love anywhere no matter the distance cherish it and if you think your LOVE could be long distance you owe it to yourself to go after it, because true love is so rare I would consider it a sin not to go for it, and that "empty feeling is a tell-tell sign that it could be the real thing, my hats go off to people in ldr because you have to love harder and more intense to keep it alive.(just my take on it) ;)
:p ;)
muffdiver13
10-24-2006, 07:54 PM
I know what you mean Muff....its been along time since I have seen Paint and my heart is aching for him....but at least we still have the phone calls to each other when we can....
Hey Kell, long time! We talk at least once a day, now more like 2-3 times. And it almost makes it worse, especially when she has a bad day, or just because I miss having her in my arms.
Chocalate, honey I agree. ;)
kellbell05
10-24-2006, 07:58 PM
Hey Kell, long time! We talk at least once a day, now more like 2-3 times. And it almost makes it worse, especially when she has a bad day, or just because I miss having her in my arms.
Chocalate, honey I agree. ;)
Yes it has been along time since we have talked...We try to talk to each other when we can, but sometimes our kids keep us busy.....but yes I miss his touch and his kisses.....
boyjoe
11-05-2006, 12:03 PM
It has been my experience that long term relationships are trying to be conquered by the same type of people who want to climb Mt. Everest. Some people succeed but most fail. Relationships are made up of so many different components that just being in love, talking on the phone and occasionally seeing the other people, just isn't enough.
Relationships are made up of constant interaction with the day to day things in life...things like work, sex, money, family, the news, etc. etc.
You need the touch of your partner, you need to see their face, you need to hear their voice live and see their expressions. You need to feel them breath on your neck when they kiss you and feel their hand in yours. Phone sex just isn't going to cut it.
I feel sorry for people in long distance relationships because in the end, I very rarely hear that it all worked out. I'm not trying to discourage anyone, just telling it how it is.
Best of luck!!!
mixed up man
11-17-2006, 08:47 AM
i am goiing to attepmt to do a LDR nex yr with my girlfriend she wants to live in the uk for 4 months then come and join me in spain with us seeing each other on weekends etc i dont know if i can deal with that i have never tried to have LDR and am very afraid, i have been with this girl for most of this year and i love her company her smile her touch etc jus don know if i can do A LDR??
and sometimes we don't but we learn something from it and treasure the memories always.
sderenzi
11-17-2006, 12:43 PM
Long distance relationships are pointless. Sure there is an emotional need everyone has to be close with another, but if you think this is the way it's a sad fact that it is not.
Honestly try showing a little backbone and patience, why mess around on the phone?
Long distance relationships are pointless. Sure there is an emotional need everyone has to be close with another, but if you think this is the way it's a sad fact that it is not.
Honestly try showing a little backbone and patience, why mess around on the phone?
I can imagine that the longest distance you have ever had any relationship is the distance from arm reaches from your shoulder to your dick - I am sure that is the one and only meaningful relationship you have had in your life.
As to backbone - you have not show a lick of that in your idiot-boy posts on the sex forum. Patience - must take you a long time to jack off - is that how you learned patience.
AlterBabe
11-17-2006, 01:45 PM
I can imagine that the longest distance you have ever had any relationship is the distance from arm reaches from your shoulder to your dick - I am sure that is the one and only meaningful relationship you have had in your life.
As to backbone - you have not show a lick of that in your idiot-boy posts on the sex forum. Patience - must take you a long time to jack off - is that how you learned patience.
*snorts and falls off chair*
*choking on popcorn* :p
*snorts and falls off chair*
*choking on popcorn* :p
Damn is it miller time yet - go get us a beer girl to go with this popcorn
AlterBabe
11-17-2006, 01:48 PM
Yeah..that should help.... *hands Mom a bottle*
Reckon he'll get laid tonight?
Yeah..that should help.... *hands Mom a bottle*
Reckon he'll get laid tonight?
If idiot boy manages to get laid by anything other than his hand, a blow up doll or paying for it, I will stand nekid in the road and let every mother son on here beat my ass with my own mop
AlterBabe
11-17-2006, 02:19 PM
S'what I thought too *snickers* Just watchin ya get fired up again ;)
Sorry for hijacking the thread....carry on :D
muffdiver13
11-17-2006, 06:34 PM
Long distance relationships are pointless. Sure there is an emotional need everyone has to be close with another, but if you think this is the way it's a sad fact that it is not.
Honestly try showing a little backbone and patience, why mess around on the phone?
You make it sound like this is something we were seking out. In my case, I wasn't looking for some one, but I found a person who I clicked with and I mean clicked. The relationship is frustrating and I'm working on a remedy.
So tell me sir, how do I show some backbone and what has that got to do with an LDR?
Muff, do a little research on the other posts that idiot boy has made. I was really chewing ass today - every thing that rolled out of his mouth was a turd of knowledge.
muffdiver13
11-17-2006, 07:22 PM
Muff, do a little research on the other posts that idiot boy has made. I was really chewing ass today - every thing that rolled out of his mouth was a turd of knowledge.
I did see that. I just thought that I would give one of these guys a fair opportunity to backup their comments. usually we flame them, but I thought maybe, I would like to hear him try and justify his remarks.
then flame him! :D