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crazymike
11-21-2005, 11:06 PM
Just wondering if it's just me, but I have never been able to cum to a blow job. Maybe it's my size, don't know.

PhoneWhore Karen
11-21-2005, 11:08 PM
Tiny, huh? :p

Just kidding. Lots of guys can't cum from oral sex. I dunno why, but I've heard that quite a few times! Atleast you have your hand!!! :D

Digger
11-22-2005, 07:56 AM
Curious.....

Ahhhh! The blow job! Stirs every male member with the mere thoughts of a warm mouth, full lips and a talent tongue! Nothing on earth make the grade like a "great" blow job! However, to be fully "loaded" and not able to "shoot" is frustrating not only for you - it is also frustrating for your partner if that is the intent to complete your pleasure. The problem is very few know how to give a "great" blow job.

Can you tell us more? Other than size.......For example, is the blow job always given in the same position? Does your partner use her (and I'll say "her" just to move forward with my questions) hands to stroke the same time she blows you? Is she capable to deep throat you? Is there something that happens to be going on that can distract you? Will she swallow or allow you to orgasm on her? I "was" in that same boat (not because of size :rolleyes: ) and, well, I'll give you some tips that will blow that load if I could know a little more about your situation.

Sizematters
11-22-2005, 08:08 AM
It takes me a long, long time to cum during a bj. That is not to say that it is not a great expierience. I love to look down at her eyes while she is going at it. Besides, that just leads into other things, and you can always pull out and pop on her face/mouth anyways (as long as she is into that) after having her in other ways.

Katia
11-22-2005, 08:16 AM
I agree with having her try different techniques, and make sure you aren't drinking ahead of time, Alcohol will make it hard to cum regardless of what she does.

crazymike
11-22-2005, 11:32 AM
Deffinately not small. I've been given head by my girlfriends in many differnet posistions, never had one who coul deep throat. I on't know, it always feels great, but never even get close to feeling like I'm going to do anything.

TheGrizz
11-22-2005, 01:42 PM
Deffinately not small. I've been given head by my girlfriends in many differnet posistions, never had one who coul deep throat. I on't know, it always feels great, but never even get close to feeling like I'm going to do anything.


I can't imagine! Most of the time I'm geared for hot, sweaty, nasty, pounding sex! But sometimes its awsome to lay back let a woman do her thing. There are only three kinds of sex, making love, making babies, and fucking! Making love is nice, never turn down the opportunity, making babies is work, no fun at all, and fucking, thats what everybody reaaly wants, but so few would ever admit it. I consider a blowjob in the making love category. Grabbing her by the head and fucking her face til she gags on your load, thats in the fucking category. It was along time ago, but I once knew a woman who would litteraly make mad passionate love to my cock with her hands and mouth, almost like I wasn't there, she just focused entirely on my dick. She would bring me to within seconds of cumming and then stop.... and do it again and again. It's easy to tell when a woman wants to suck you instead of sucking you because you want her to, and if her heart is not in it, it wont be good. One thing that may be a problem is if one or both of you is still uncertain how to "finish". Agree on this up front and you will both be more relaxed and able to enjoy yourselves. Of coarse if you want to cum in her mouth, do it, but if you ever want her to blow you again, you better make sure she's okay with it first.
Spit, swallow, or let 'er fly! it's all good, but when letting it fly, watch your eyes!!!!!!!

Sorry if I'm rambling here, must be the medication

2drsei
01-23-2008, 09:07 AM
i caint cum during a bj either i get right to were im going to and dont or feel like i do but dont gf gives great bjs even makes my leg twitch if is so frustrating

reddevil
01-23-2008, 09:34 AM
Trouble here, too. Have only been able to one time. Now it's a turn on for a few minutes knowing they are willing, but not worth the time it takes to finish. Don't feel like its fair to the partner to have to work so hard. I'd just as soon wet it for a few minutes and then dunk it in the honey pot.

R. Leatherette
01-23-2008, 10:06 AM
ooh a challenge ..I like that.

Ive had a few tell me not to bother because they never cum.

They only ever say that at first though...then once they do cum from a proper cock sucking they can't get enough!;)

sexy_latina
01-23-2008, 10:07 AM
hmmmm? i never thought a a guy would have problems in cumin with a BJ... but speaking for my BF here... he has no prob with tht, although it takes a while ;)

madmax
01-23-2008, 10:14 AM
ooh a challenge ..I like that.

Ive had a few tell me not to bother because they never cum.

They only ever say that at first though...then once they do cum from a proper cock sucking they can't get enough!;)

Technique matters... timing too.
Last night I held off until she peaked her third time, then she finished me off... I thought my temples were caving in!

reddevil
01-23-2008, 10:17 AM
ooh a challenge ..I like that.

Ive had a few tell me not to bother because they never cum.

They only ever say that at first though...then once they do cum from a proper cock sucking they can't get enough!;)

Then I Challenge you. I don't think you can make me cum. I think you're bluffing.:rolleyes:

R. Leatherette
01-23-2008, 10:17 AM
yes all cocks are different and you need to adjust ...

HotinAZ
01-23-2008, 10:24 AM
Put me down for not being able to. Or, bad BJ's, not sure yet.

reddevil
01-23-2008, 10:24 AM
hmmmm? i never thought a a guy would have problems in cumin with a BJ... but speaking for my BF here... he has no prob with tht, although it takes a while ;)

I just can't stay away from the Y that long. And it's hard to concentrate during 69, but I do love it.:p

Chocalate darling
01-23-2008, 12:35 PM
Just wondering if it's just me, but I have never been able to cum to a blow job. Maybe it's my size, don't know.

Tell her to add a little hand play..........:p

Noris Ja
01-23-2008, 12:43 PM
Tell her to add a little hand play..........:p

I actually prefer that over the mouth play.
It allows for some nice chatter. :)

Chocalate darling
01-23-2008, 12:45 PM
I actually prefer that over the mouth play.
It allows for some nice chatter. :)

what she can't talk with a cock in her mouth:rolleyes::p:D

Noris Ja
01-23-2008, 12:50 PM
what she can't talk with a cock in her mouth:rolleyes::p:D


Not with mine. LOL
Kidding.

richdon03
01-23-2008, 12:52 PM
ooh a challenge ..I like that.

Ive had a few tell me not to bother because they never cum.

They only ever say that at first though...then once they do cum from a proper cock sucking they can't get enough!;)

I don't believe you.:p

Chocalate darling
01-23-2008, 12:53 PM
Not with mine. LOL
Kidding.

;):D

richdon03
01-23-2008, 12:54 PM
Good evening, Ms Darling.;)

R. Leatherette
01-23-2008, 12:55 PM
What don't you believe?!

Actually I think some guys say that on purpose so they'll get the special treatment!lol

Chocalate darling
01-23-2008, 12:55 PM
Good evening, Ms Darling.;)

Hi Rich;)

Chocalate darling
01-23-2008, 12:55 PM
What don't you believe?!

Actually I think some guys say that on purpose so they'll get the special treatment!lol

Yes...so you can put your all into it:D

richdon03
01-23-2008, 12:56 PM
What don't you believe?!

Actually I think some guys say that on purpose so they'll get the special treatment!lol

Who, me? Never!:rolleyes::rolleyes:

stevey
01-23-2008, 01:11 PM
No problem for me cumming, none at all, I love BJ's. I still remember my first one. My date was, ahem, a litle more experienced than I. Anyway, I came in her mouth, and she jsut kept right on going until I did it again!

bgdkrk
01-23-2008, 01:27 PM
I almost prefer a bj.... Almost! Hi forum.. Im a newbie.

richdon03
01-23-2008, 01:37 PM
No problem for me cumming, none at all, I love BJ's. I still remember my first one. My date was, ahem, a litle more experienced than I. Anyway, I came in her mouth, and she jsut kept right on going until I did it again!

Wow. WOW!

richdon03
01-23-2008, 01:37 PM
I almost prefer a bj.... Almost! Hi forum.. Im a newbie.

Hi bgdkrk. Welcome.

bgdkrk
01-23-2008, 01:38 PM
Hi bgdkrk. Welcome.

Thank you, I appreciate the welcome.

glazed donut
01-23-2008, 01:39 PM
i think i would blow my load at just the thought of darling or leatherette coming near my cock:eek: :D

kreative_2001
01-23-2008, 01:39 PM
What don't you believe?!

Actually I think some guys say that on purpose so they'll get the special treatment!lol

Oh I'm sure that is a very few at most! We would NEVER say anything like that with any kind of hidden agenda here! ;)

R. Leatherette
01-23-2008, 01:42 PM
i think i would blow my load at just the thought of darling or leatherette coming near my cock:eek: :D

lol..Ive had that happen a few times...adorable!!;)

richdon03
01-23-2008, 01:42 PM
i think i'll blow my load at just the thought of darling or leatherette coming near my cock:eek: :D

You allowed them both into your mind at the same time and then said OR? No, no, no. They need to be together!

I think I could get off just watching them, but I would darn sure hold off until they're done with me.

Barnesto
01-23-2008, 01:44 PM
lol....same here!i think i would blow my load at just the thought of darling or leatherette coming near my cock:eek: :D

glazed donut
01-23-2008, 01:54 PM
You allowed them both into your mind at the same time and then said OR? No, no, no. They need to be together!

I think I could get off just watching them, but I would darn sure hold off until they're done with me.

i know what im going to be thinking about when i go to sleep tonight. imim gogogogoing to have i great time sleeping im already ststststuddering

mikeboogie
01-23-2008, 02:15 PM
i think i would blow my load at just the thought of darling or leatherette coming near my cock:eek: :D

Not me. I'd have this ravenous look in my eyes and there'd be clothes torn off, shoes kicked to far corners of the room, furniture turned over, and FUCK undoing that bra. I'd just rip that motherfucker in half.

<looks around nervously>

Sorry....I'm feeling a little agressive today.

ice_in_houston
01-23-2008, 08:35 PM
I haven't ever cum off of a blow job. Maybe it was the fact that the girl was using her teeth, but just wasn't a happy experience for me.

As for the thought of darling AND leatherette comming near my cock... I exploded just thinking about it.

nphxcpl4fun
01-23-2008, 09:07 PM
I haven't ever cum off of a blow job. Maybe it was the fact that the girl was using her teeth, but just wasn't a happy experience for me.



are you kidding me, the only way I will cum is if a chick uses her teeth!!!

morningwood
01-23-2008, 09:21 PM
I never came from a bow job till my x wife sucked me she made me cum every time. That was her only good talent. If i were to guess I would say whoever is sucking your dick just hasen't hit the right speed or got that ball tickle down right

morningwood
01-23-2008, 09:23 PM
If the gal isn't loving it she shouldn't be doing it

dead eye
01-23-2008, 10:26 PM
I never came from a bow job till my x wife sucked me she made me cum every time. That was her only good talent. If i were to guess I would say whoever is sucking your dick just hasen't hit the right speed or got that ball tickle down right

Sometimes it is in your head not hers. When I was married my Ex gave great head, After we were Divorced we got together a few times and I would lay there looking at at my watch, it was a real chore . And took great concentration just to pop. Same woman, Same technique, Same mouth, same dick, totally different results.
She was really trying too, she was trying to get us back together...but even a great blowjob wasn't going to get me down that road again.

fordzrulr
01-23-2008, 11:21 PM
i have had a thousand bjs and the ony times that i could'nt cum, it was MY fault..a too drunk,,b,too medicated,c, her hubby came home d, my wifey came home..if a man cant nut from a bj..its all in your head..or you beat off too much as a teenager..
what does a tight rope walker have in common with a guy getting a blowjob form a 90 year old woman???????the both are thinking dont look down, dont look down
seriously though, I consider myself an expert in tha area of getting bj' ask me a question,,if you want it quick,,if you want it to last all night,,if your pissed at her and want to work her out for and hour(or longer) just ask
i will tell you which prescription meds will do what you need (how you get them??) BUT THEYRE LEGAL

3xthreat
01-24-2008, 12:59 AM
ooh a challenge ..I like that.

Ive had a few tell me not to bother because they never cum.

They only ever say that at first though...then once they do cum from a proper cock sucking they can't get enough!;)

That's me!;):D;)

AlterBabe
01-24-2008, 07:38 AM
If the gal isn't loving it she shouldn't be doing it

Exactly the point..and if she's enjoying it....he will :D

kornable
01-24-2008, 04:31 PM
i've only ever come once from a blowjob and that was cos i was preddy much fukn her face just felt really good maybe also my mum was in the next room and we were trina be quiet.

2drsei
01-24-2008, 06:43 PM
ive cum for the girls i didnt care about they were just flings with out a problem thinking i might need to get my gf to watch some porn to get her to try some new things. she gives really good bjs but i just cain to seem to expload for hear can go a little most times.

Mom
01-25-2008, 07:25 AM
Just wondering if it's just me, but I have never been able to cum to a blow job. Maybe it's my size, don't know.

maybe you haven't had the right "blower"

nphxcpl4fun
01-25-2008, 07:30 AM
maybe you haven't had the right "blower"

was that an offer?
Maybe you should give classes, need volunteers?

Mom
01-25-2008, 07:30 AM
was that an offer?
Maybe you should give classes, need volunteers?

:eek::eek:No and No

nphxcpl4fun
01-25-2008, 07:33 AM
:eek::eek:No and No

she said with her mouth agape :eek::eek:

lmao

you do need some coffee

morningwood
01-25-2008, 01:56 PM
So do you love it AlterBabe?

love blow jobs
09-15-2008, 06:28 PM
i have a big cock and she gives me awesome head but cant cum she swalows after i make love to her and i cum in her mouth but would love to enjoy cumming in her mouth while she deep throats me

pulledmuscle
09-15-2008, 08:53 PM
Being that I'm a married man I have to ask, what's a blow job?

Cumulas
09-16-2008, 06:54 AM
i have had a thousand bjs and the ony times that i could'nt cum, it was MY fault..a too drunk,,b,too medicated,c, her hubby came home d, my wifey came home..if a man cant nut from a bj..its all in your head..or you beat off too much as a teenager..
what does a tight rope walker have in common with a guy getting a blowjob form a 90 year old woman???????the both are thinking dont look down, dont look down
seriously though, I consider myself an expert in tha area of getting bj' ask me a question,,if you want it quick,,if you want it to last all night,,if your pissed at her and want to work her out for and hour(or longer) just ask
i will tell you which prescription meds will do what you need (how you get them??) BUT THEYRE LEGAL


Ok this has me curious, cause when i get a blow job, i'm just the opposite of the the OP, it feels so damn good it doesn't take any time at all for me to cum. What would you suggest for making me last for an hour before popping?

hotromantic
09-16-2008, 08:39 AM
Ok this has me curious, cause when i get a blow job, i'm just the opposite of the the OP, it feels so damn good it doesn't take any time at all for me to cum. What would you suggest for making me last for an hour before popping?

Well you aint the only one...I cant from a bj or from sex at all..so you aint alone.