My girlfriend is a lesbian

[sheek2000isnotme]

Hello,

I am a male and this is the first time that I have had a bi-sexual girlfriend. I have questions for women that are bi-sexual. PLEASE BE HONEST.

1) Can bi-sexual women be faithful?
2) If my bi-sexual girlfriend periodically talks to some of her ex women lovers, what is the possibility that she has something going on with them behind my back? She says she don’t see them but she talks to them.
3) My bi-sexual girlfriend mentioned that she was going on vacation with one of her main X girlfriends. A lady she was really close too. I complained about this and she mentioned that they are just friends. Can I trust her on this?
4) She always tries to justify that being with another women is different then being with a man? Should this raise any red flags? Does this mean it is easy for her to cheat with me on other women?

I will probably update this with more questions as they come… But please answer these questions in all honesty and please, no biasing… Tell me like it is. Be raw with me and keep the truth.

[latinabunny]

Hi sheek. I'll go ahead and answer your questions.

1. Doesn't matter weither your bit, staright, gay, or whatever, anyone can be faithful, it just depends they choose to be.

2. Just because she talks to them doesn't mean she has something with them or doing anything behind your back but she should respect your feelings about her talking to her ex's and try to help out the situation.

3.Now some people after a break up can actually become closer and can stay friends (rarely) in my opinion i would be pissed if she left with a main ex-girl. at least she should be able to respect your wishes for her to stay. sometimes when your alone with someone u had feelings for those feelings might stirr back up. personally i think its a bad idea unless she can really prove they are just "friends"

4. Just like the first question, don't matter, its up to her.

now, how long have u two been dating? is this relationship serious? and your actually one of the very, very rare men to care weither or not your girlfriend is being with woman. but thats ok. its a good thing. i just think have to sit down with her and have a very serious conversation. if theres no trust. it won't work. trust me..... hope my advice helped.

[sheek2000isnotme]

I have been dating her for about 10 months now and it is serious. And yes, your comments did help. And to be honest with you, I do not have any trust for her although she tries billions of times to get me to trust her, it just seems to me that being bisexual is promiscuous, but I could be wrong. I hope i'm wrong.