Soft Swing

[lajo]

Wife and I are into soft swing. We don't swap but enjoy being exhibitionists, voyeurs, touch, masturbation, and being nude outdoors with other intelligent people with the same interests. It is difficult to meet others that do not want more. We live in the southwest and would love to hear from others their views/experiences on meeting similair people.

[Firestormtx]

When responding to another couples ad, my wife and I used a few guidelines that might help you insure a safe and fun soft swing experience.

First, state up front that all activity is SAME ROOM and that no partner exchanges or swapping will be involved. Make your first meeting a public place or if its dinner at your place, have dinner on the patio or someplace semi private while you talk about details. Once you agree on a limit, stick to it for the entire night, no matter the temptation. If you want more than soft swing, save it for next time.

Second, present the other couple with their own "space" prior to any activity, this insures a clear boundry.

Third, if voyeurism is the goal, don't be bashful, put on a good porn movie or something else that is "solo" oriented, again this establishes that boundry.

Finally, don't be bashful about saying "no" and if the other couple doesn't listen, send them home, do not have another drink and discuss it, etc, once a boundry is crossed, it will happen again.

Above all, be up front with your spouse/girlfriend and keep them forefront in seeking your pleasure.

Hope this helps, we've been full swap swingers for 10 years and we are happy, healthy and enjoying life.

[cossette]

Wife and I are into soft swing. We don't swap but enjoy being exhibitionists, voyeurs, touch, masturbation, and being nude outdoors with other intelligent people with the same interests. It is difficult to meet others that do not want more. We live in the southwest and would love to hear from others their views/experiences on meeting similair people.

We have been into soft swing for some time and find it exciting. We surf the swinger sites and do meet people that way although we do meet first to establish boundaries. Most have been great but we know usually before our first meeting is over whether it will work or not. Good luck.

[lajo]

Female half here.....we have done those things and have been successful but have also had a few 'problem' people too. Overall, it's been great. We were involved in a 3-way relationship with another woman for 2+ years until we moved to the southwest. We're still dear friends with her but as a threesome we had less problems people wanting more than we now do as a couple. I think it was because the three of us together put on quite a show and people always enjoyed watching. We like to go to San Marcus Inn in Palm Springs, CA.. There is quite a mixture of swingers that frequent this nudist/swinger resort. We find it the most comfortable place to 'soft swing' without worry as many only soft swing too.....and the ones that don't have always respected our boundaries. We would like to find people in the Tucson/Phoenix area with the same boundaries and meet up but have had a hard time....to be honest.

[fun2be40]

i just found site, I am interested but freely admit that wife does not play and i must be discrete as she would not approve. Did this once but so hard to find such fun with people keeping limits and certainly as male only. had one great experience and would love to repeat but always with respect

thanks for opportunity to say hello

[dan77]

i like your idea of soft swing

[Alicat33351]

We have done soft swinging, exhibitionism and enjoyed a threesome MMF here in South Florida (close to Fort Lauderdale). Encountering couples that enjoy this is difficult, we agree.

[AZKONG]

We have done soft swinging, exhibitionism and enjoyed a threesome MMF here in South Florida (close to Fort Lauderdale). Encountering couples that enjoy this is difficult, we agree.


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