advice (my girlfried USED to be a lesbian)

[dontknow]

hi ppl,

ive jus found this site and i need a little advice :) im really in love with my girl but the other day she told me that she used to be in a relationship with her best friend.

this come about because her friend had been pestering us since we first began going out, i didnt really think nothing of it until her friend got really aggressive and tried to run me over! which i thought was a mad thing to do :D she then starts turning up at my house and my parents beeping her horn outside and shouting at my girl calling her a slag and all that caper.

so i start to ask questions and she finally told me that her m8 wants her bak and that she hates all men end of. i dont know what to do cause this girl will not give up! they have been apart for a while now and they where only seeing eachother for a year, so i dont know why she cant go out and meet some1 else? they are always togeather and staying in eachothers houses and i get really jealous because its time we should be sharing, she always trys to control my girlfriend by saying she will kill herself if she doesnt meet with her! or she will tell me all about what they got upto and stuff. my girlfriend has told her she doesnt love her and never did, she said it was jus 4 fun and that it only happend on and off cause they where bored.

i have a few questions:

my girlfriend has told me she is not gay and she isnt bisexual, can you really change your mind about something like that?

she always wants me to trust her when she goes out with this friend and gets drunk. should i trust her?

can she be faithful to me because i really love her, but i dont know if she will ever decide to go back to her old ways?

what can i do about her ex????????????????

[fd4130]

About the exgirlfriend two words restraning order, also staking, and a few other charges you could tack on.

[Scooby06]

I am a lesbian and I can tell you that, that other girl is not going any where, especially if she loves her. I don’t know if your girl is in love with you or how strong her feelings are for you, but if she still has feelings for that other girl more than likely they messed around behind your back. Or the other girl has definitely come on to your girlfriend. If she loves you, I don’t think she would cheat on you, but I'm pretty sure it has crossed her mind. Being in that type of relationship more drama is going to keep adding to the situation and more people are going to get involved. She needs to make up her mind and leave that other girl behind, even though that is her best friend they crossed that line and they can never go back. The first time that girl disrespected you she should have left that girl alone, if she cares about you how she says she does. But you say they hang out all the time, that’s telling me that she's not ready to let her go. This is a big gamble but if you love her and your willing to deal with all of her baggage, stick by her and be patient she will come around.

[bondjaniebond]

dontknow,

i think your girl wants to have her cake and eat it, too...and i think thats what shes doing. her x-girl wouldnt be crazy like that if their relationship had been over for a while...she may have said it was over to you...but if shes staying the night with her then i betcha its not. your girlfriend might be leading her x-girl on. who the hell hangs out with there x's anyway? i think that if your girl wanted the other woman out of your lives then it would be so....i think you've got a chick that loves drama. hell, it kinda sounds like you do, too!

[OnePutt]

Are you so simple minded that you actually believe she is 1 - UNGAY because she met you. And 2 - Going out and getting drunk and then spending the night with her girlfriend and sleeping in SEPERATE BEDS? Jeez man! Wake up from fantasy world! By the way, I have some ocean front property in Arizona I can sell you at a great price