confused?

[o my macaroni]

Hi people. I am a 19 yr old female from the Dallas/Ft. area. I am not gay or even bi, I think. However, alot of my friends are gay, lesbian, or bisexual and I have had feelings for girls for a long time. I sometimes get off to girls. I guess that I am just curious, I dunno really. One of my best friends kissed me once, but that was a long time ago. I also know that she has hooked up with girls on several occasions, she is bi. I have thought that she was hot probably for about 4 years now. I don't want to scare her off by telling her of my feelings, but I kind of want her to know. I think that I may have fallen in love with her, it seems like more than a crush. What should I do? any advice? Thanks for anything you can offer.

[felix]

hello, well what i have to say is that you know that she is bi so it isnt like she would be disgusted with your feelings for her. i think you should let her know, you cant be afraid of rejection because it happens from time to time. but if you want her to know then tell her, i know that it is easier said than done, but its best to put it on a plate. you want to be in wonder forever? if it is just a crush then maybe you can continue crushing but if you really got feelings then tell her. if she is your friend then she will understand and listen, who knows....she might secretely like you too. ;) by the way, you might be bi-curious. you are young so experiment, that is the only way you will learn yourself.

[javier]

Professional used to say people are born gay and they corrected themselves. They say people make themselves gay. Why? Curious makes people do things that eventually will kill them. Curiousity makes people kill, liar, get in bigger trouble and try new things.