View Full Version : SLEEPING TOGETHER: a question for women
TrueWrit
02-15-2006, 05:29 AM
FAIR WARNING: this isn't anywhere near as erotic or sexual as some of the other threads. Although it might've happened during a one or two nighter -- or during short-lived relationships -- because I didn't spend just about every night with them in bed for years at a time, I may not have noticed. But the two women I have been married to, like most females, professed a joy of cuddling in bed which I was (and am) always happy to do. But eventually, they would always worm or push me away, breaking out of the old spoon, sleeping, position, many times saying, "You're too hot!". What up wit dat?!
:cool: You'd think with such poor circulation (in the hands & fingers; toes & feet) you women would love a guy who's motor is always warm (and I'm not just talkin 'bout the penile motor)! (Hmmm. Maybe this should be filed under, "What do women really want?"). :D --TW
Sweet
02-15-2006, 05:56 AM
Ummmmmmm. I'm a cuddler.........I love to cuddle....love to be spooned....love to spoon. However...........my husbands body temperature gets to like 150 degrees when we're in this position too long and when his skins starts melting to mine.....it's time to worm out. Sorry. :rolleyes: Hope this helps.
And by the way, my fingers and toes are never really cold. I must have good circulation. :D
arizdiamond35
02-15-2006, 06:03 AM
I like to be cuddled before I go to sleep and when I wake up. I do not care for sleeping that close to someone though. Slight body contact is ok with me for sleeping but thats it. Then again it could be because I do toss and turn a bit when I am sleeping, if someone is trying to cuddle then I am just held down and I cant sleep the way I am use to.
haz123
02-15-2006, 06:13 AM
cuddles and spooning.... this from bloke perspective... and gets to much and to hot....
send her to spare room :D
TrueWrit
02-15-2006, 08:15 AM
Hey SWEET, ARIZ: Actually, even though I'm a guy (nod to Ariz), I'd already figured it out. Since my better half is out of town for a day, I didn't have anyone to harrass, so I thought I'd give you guys some shit. :D
Thanks for the answers though, ladies. As always, my best to you both (you know what I'm talking about). And if I don't get a chance to say it later in the week, so stay well, stay sane...and stay warm. ;)
HAZ: I don't care _how_ much you like to cuddle, I won't spoon with ya -- hairy legs not attached to a woman just doesn't do it for me. :rolleyes:
--TW
haz123
02-15-2006, 08:21 AM
Trying to give advice good or bad.... and sleep with me :eek: blimey mate.... where did i even mention that...
gald you figured it out.
Sweet
02-15-2006, 11:51 AM
Hey SWEET, ARIZ: Actually, even though I'm a guy (nod to Ariz), I'd already figured it out. Since my better half is out of town for a day, I didn't have anyone to harrass, so I thought I'd give you guys some shit. :D
Thanks for the answers though, ladies. As always, my best to you both (you know what I'm talking about). And if I don't get a chance to say it later in the week, so stay well, stay sane...and stay warm. ;)
HAZ: I don't care _how_ much you like to cuddle, I won't spoon with ya -- hairy legs not attached to a woman just doesn't do it for me. :rolleyes:
--TW
Whats up TW......better luck snuggling tonight.......just make it cold in the house....then she'll want to snuggle. LOL :D
shorty
02-15-2006, 01:14 PM
I love to snuggle but when it comes to sleep I just need my own space don't take it personally we all need our own space but remember she will always come back x
a snuggle is great and all that but hey sleep is sleep........ when i am ready to sleep move to your side of the bed.....if I wanted to be that close i would have gotten a single bed to share....besides i dont want to hear you snoring in my ear or feel your breath down my neck or ear either....
now if you want sex ...cuddle this girl.....then after you have finished and i am playing with my other toy ...you can cuddle me.... and then m o v e over :p