Need Help and Advise

[qazwsx]

This might look foolish but I need some advise from expirienced members like you. :confused:

My girlfriend and and I got intimidate and decided to make love for the first time yesterday. But even when my dick was erect I was not able to penetrate into her. When i tried to finger her she stopped it due to the pain.

I am not able to conclude what is wrong? is it because her pussy is tight?

Any suggestions?

[wildcat_fire]

if it is both of yours first times, then she was proberly tense... and that does make everything down their tense up too alittle. It will hurt her for the first time, but once you get over that it gets so much better. Try being very gentle with her, and using your fingers very gently to loosen her up and maybe use some lubricant aswell. Hope this helps.

[PhoneWhore Karen]

This might look foolish but I need some advise from expirienced members like you. :confused:

My girlfriend and and I got intimidate and decided to make love for the first time yesterday. But even when my dick was erect I was not able to penetrate into her. When i tried to finger her she stopped it due to the pain.

I am not able to conclude what is wrong? is it because her pussy is tight?

Any suggestions?

Just say, "Hold your breath, bitch." Then shove it in. :D

[deep100]

sounds like your lady is a little tense, some baby oil and a gentle massage around the lower half of her body, take your time and she has to be totally relaxed and ok with every step, it may well take a while so be patient.

[lilmike]

damn Karen thats cruel LOL even Jack The Ripper wasn't that mean

[PhoneWhore Karen]

damn Karen thats cruel LOL even Jack The Ripper wasn't that mean

Oh, my bad. I thought that was hot. Oops. How about... "Bend over, slut. Let's try that other hole."

[LOBO52]

You're killing me Karen.... :D

[mikeboogie]

Man, she was just as nervous as you were. And when women get nervous, the well dries up, so to speak. It's going to hurt the first time, but like the previous poster said, a message will do wonders for relaxation. You also may need to work your dick in a little bit at a time- go in a little, come back out a little, and more and more work whatevers left into her.

-and dont go jack-rabbiting around in there. You know: Bang, Bang, BANGBANGBANG! None of that. Take is slow.

[shorty]

You need to make sure you are warming her up first to get her in the mood. Try kissing and nibbling her neck and her ears.... then her breasts.... etc. etc. Mix it all up also variety is the spice of life! Good luck :)

[Kris]

YES, relax, take it slow, etc!!!! If this is your first time MAKE IT LAST and enjoy it. Oh and this would be a good time to mention the condom (roll it on baby, you don't want to give or recieve any gifts that keep on giving)

[dragontiger_st]

Do you not know you have to LICK it BEFOR YOU STICK IT !!!!!! :p :p