Husband into Porn and I'm left out

[cryineyes]

I'm a married 42 year old woman who's husband uses all types of excuses to make love to me. However, he's always on the net looking at this crack and that crack. He won't talk w/me about it and our marriage is going down the hill because of the lack of intimacy. Of course i bring it up because i think we really need to talk about it.

Has anyone gone through or going through a similar situation. :confused:

[arizdiamond35]

Not sure what to tell you. It always sucks when one partner wants to keep the other out of something. Mine has started sneaking it even though I am always a willing participant. What is it with you guys and needing to sneek crap, dont you realize we always find out whether we say anything or not.

[Artman]

Im in the same boat but its my wife, she says she just has no interest in intamacy. We have not be intimate for the past 2 yrs, I feel your pain, Im 45 and intamacy is important to me.

[SIMMCO]

get some porn movies and watch them with him , let him know you enjoy it also , maybe he wants to try something new and is embarresed to tell you , be OPEN minded , as we change , so do our likes , he may not think you would be a willing partner , suprise him , dress up as a whore , with full and heavy make up , most men will not admite it but make up is a real turn on , be the woman in the porn movie ,

[muffdiver13]

Not sure what to tell you. It always sucks when one partner wants to keep the other out of something. Mine has started sneaking it even though I am always a willing participant. What is it with you guys and needing to sneek crap, dont you realize we always find out whether we say anything or not.
Not me babe, I only get into the porn shit when I'm not gettin it regular.

[phil1967]

I was in the same situation only it was my wife that was the unwilling participant, we used to do it 3 times a day probably 3 or 4 times a week. Then one day it just stopped it led to a lot of fighting. Eventually my marriage was just about destroyed. :( :(

[Banthor]

Damned if we do, damned if we do. I am losing interest in my current partner. I was bored with the sex almost after the first few months, but she has a keen mind, if unable to communicate. She is a caring and loving woman and I really respect and enjoy her soul. I dutifully fuck her brains out every few days but it's getting harder and harder not showing some dissapointment.

I was raised in a more open and sexually exciting world, she grew up in wheat country where the most important thing a guy had to have to get laid was a Car.

She knows I seek some satisfaction through videos and has expressed willingness, even enthusiasm for trying out new things. But for her, new things are a different sent of candle. I showed her the tamest video I could and that turned her pale. When I cum, she streaks to the bathroom to drain. she will lick and suck me as long as I don't orgasm. And every time we make love I suck on her till she is quivering mass before I take my pants off.
For me it's not great unless it's running down my checks.

I really love, honor, and respect her. But I need to get Laid!!

[haz123]

Hey nothing like watching porn together..... its a great turn on, gets me going everytime...

Be truthful with your fella.... he may get a little :confused: but after a while you both will be acting out the scenes and well ..... like i do, forget its even on x