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Old 11-05-2012, 04:33 PM   #1
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Talking having sex with my mother

For the past year or so i have been having these deep fantasies about me being with my mom. I am 29 and she is in her late 40's very cute nice body. Was a wild woman when i was growing up but she has since then settled down.is there any advice anyone can gibe me or mothers that have had similar situations thank yoy in advance
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Old 11-12-2012, 10:11 AM   #2
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yeah...probably not going to happen and you'll just make things awkward if you try
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Old 11-16-2012, 12:18 AM   #3
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I think you're kind of sick in the head, take $20.00 and go buy a hand job, you sick jerk.
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Old 11-30-2012, 11:48 AM   #4
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Ah........well......fantasys are fantasys........and they are not all what they are cracked up to be alot of times, when truly gone after. Repercussions can be good or bad! This is truly a tricky one. I don't think it is sick, or that rare, to feel this way.
I've not had the desire with mine of course......reasons not mattering.
You have the most knowledge, the most information to work with here. Just be prepared for the worse........or maybe the best, and talk to her honestly about your desires and feelings sometime if you have the courage and really want to find out for sure in you're mind and settle it once and for all, or just keep it in your pants and get it out of your mind and go on. This is the key for whater is......is. There is no courage to be given here. Good luck!
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Old 12-01-2012, 03:11 PM   #5
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Before labeling him as “sick” I would want to know a few things. First, according to his posted ages, his mother must have been a teenager when he was born. He also says she was “wild” when young. He mentions nothing of a father. Is it safe to conclude the poster was a (perhaps unwanted) child of a single mom not yet mature enough for the responsibility?

But my biggest concern is his apparently sudden feelings for his mom. This is unusual to the point of impossibility. What he’s not admitting (perhaps even to himself) is that he was attracted to her sexually all along. Moreover, my bet is that his relationship with her as a child involved sex at some level. I’m not saying she engaged sexually with him, but something she did triggers sexual arousal in him. My guess is that she was sexual with men in front of him, either directly or inadvertently. As he entered puberty, her sexual escapades became his source of arousal, and perhaps even fodder for masturbation.

If I’m right (and only the poster can tell me this) there is no way out of it. His best sexual joy will come from involvement with women that remind him of him mother, preferably both in attitude and body type. This could actually be a good thing. Fetishes tend to intensify sexual enjoyment, not interfere with it. I’m a strong advocate for indulging a fetish rather than trying to get rid of it.

Incest is usually blocked by the Westermarck effect, and this is active even in cases like the OP. He definitely should NEVER attempt to become sexual with his mother. The Westermarck effect will cause a very disruptive conflict in his sexual mind that will change his life forever (for the worse). But finding women who resemble her in body and persona can give him a very enjoyable sex life without triggering a Westermarck conflict.
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Old 12-01-2012, 04:49 PM   #6
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Before labeling him as “sick” I would want to know a few things. First, according to his posted ages, his mother must have been a teenager when he was born. He also says she was “wild” when young. He mentions nothing of a father. Is it safe to conclude the poster was a (perhaps unwanted) child of a single mom not yet mature enough for the responsibility?

But my biggest concern is his apparently sudden feelings for his mom. This is unusual to the point of impossibility. What he’s not admitting (perhaps even to himself) is that he was attracted to her sexually all along. Moreover, my bet is that his relationship with her as a child involved sex at some level. I’m not saying she engaged sexually with him, but something she did triggers sexual arousal in him. My guess is that she was sexual with men in front of him, either directly or inadvertently. As he entered puberty, her sexual escapades became his source of arousal, and perhaps even fodder for masturbation.

If I’m right (and only the poster can tell me this) there is no way out of it. His best sexual joy will come from involvement with women that remind him of him mother, preferably both in attitude and body type. This could actually be a good thing. Fetishes tend to intensify sexual enjoyment, not interfere with it. I’m a strong advocate for indulging a fetish rather than trying to get rid of it.

Incest is usually blocked by the Westermarck effect, and this is active even in cases like the OP. He definitely should NEVER attempt to become sexual with his mother. The Westermarck effect will cause a very disruptive conflict in his sexual mind that will change his life forever (for the worse). But finding women who resemble her in body and persona can give him a very enjoyable sex life without triggering a Westermarck conflict.
wooooooooooow, SnatcherBabe, what a DEEP analysis!!!!!

r u a psichologist, or what??????

Anyway, I like your profile pictures and added you as friend....:P

As about "sex with mother", the society nowadays is toooooooo much against that, so better DON'T!!!!! Fortunately, there are so MANY interesting women out there..........just spend some time, hope and money to search for them! You will not be disspointed!!!!!!!

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Jobs4Adults - I am a retired psychologist who specialized in childhood sexuality and deviant behavior involving children. That's why pretty much everything to me gets viewed under the lens of childhood. I'm also the product of childhood sexualization, and that's why my adult sex life is "different" (and why I chose my particular career). Surgeons think surgery is the answer to everything, nutritionists think good food it the answer to everything, and I think delving into one's childhood is the answer. But at least in psychology just about every problem DOES stem from childhood, so when it comes to sex ... etc. It's a wide open field because the social stigma attached to even talking about childhood sex at even an academic level is highly taboo. It's kind of like going to an intellectual smorgasbord ... and finding all the food just for you. But retirement is boring so I may spout off analytical diatribes in sex forums. Please forgive any boredom to which I subject you.
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Jobs4Adults - I am a retired psychologist who specialized in childhood sexuality and deviant behavior involving children. That's why pretty much everything to me gets viewed under the lens of childhood. I'm also the product of childhood sexualization, and that's why my adult sex life is "different" (and why I chose my particular career). Surgeons think surgery is the answer to everything, nutritionists think good food it the answer to everything, and I think delving into one's childhood is the answer. But at least in psychology just about every problem DOES stem from childhood, so when it comes to sex ... etc. It's a wide open field because the social stigma attached to even talking about childhood sex at even an academic level is highly taboo. It's kind of like going to an intellectual smorgasbord ... and finding all the food just for you. But retirement is boring so I may spout off analytical diatribes in sex forums. Please forgive any boredom to which I subject you.
Whau, Babe, it seems so interesting what you say again!

Why don't you write a book about it?????????????? Really!!!! IT WILL BE HUGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You can't talk about that in academies????????? Do it in an ebook, autopublish it on Amazon and you can be bigger than E.L. James!!!! "Childhood sexuality and deviant behavior involving children" it will be HUGE, especially that you seem smart, sexy and know about this field...

So, will you do it or not???????????

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Old 12-02-2012, 10:41 AM   #9
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Jobs - I don't want to bore anyone with an academic discussion in a forum that's supposed to appeal to the more prurient side, but there are literally hundreds of books already on childhood sexuality and dozens of research articles per year published in the journals. This is why I get bent out of shape when I read disclaimers on sex forums that “strictly forbid” any mention of childhood sexuality, as if just talking about it will somehow convert the readers to a life of pedophilia.

I find the whole topic fascinating on a socio-scientific level, and important for women who are involved in alternative sexual lifestyle since most of them have childhood sexualization in their past. Do you really think that a normal housewife will, after living a conventional monogamous life, wake up one morning and think “hey, I’ll go down to the adult theater today and lay back in the dark while 3 dozen of the world’s most sexual desperate men ejaculate bareback up my pussy”? I’m happy there are men like you who find it interesting to know how a woman got like that. But I assure you, you are in the minority. Most men are delighted the world contains “cumslut” women, but don’t have enough cerebrum nor respect to be interested in how they got like that.

Put all the social stigma aside, put aside the unwarranted fears that talking about it is against the law (it’s not), put aside the entertainment value that Dateline NBC finds in trapping, then busting, idiots who try to make dates with 12 year olds, and just think of how fascinating is the human mind … especially where it’s linked to sex. Did you know you probably had your first sexual thought before you even learned to speak? You probably got your first erection at about age 5. You probably had your first sexual fantasy at around age 6. The child mind is intensely sexual … and how it interacts with an adult world that’s obsessed with sex is not only amazing to think of on an academic level, but of vital importance to understand when dealing with people who have alternative sexuality.

Our society has no problem thinking of what causes a child to grow into a murderer, or a thief, or depressed, suicidal, homeless, psychotic, etc. But GOD FORBID you wish to think about what factors in a child’s life set his/her path down a sexually alternative road and you’ve got the morality police crawling up your ass.

Literally every aspect of my life, including my career choice, the choice of my husband, the choice of my sexual lifestyle, even the type of food I like, has a root to a 20 second incident that happened when I was a young child. It’s a long story, but in a nutshell I allowed a grown male relative to use me to have an orgasm. The incident lasted about 20 seconds, of which only about 3 seconds involved actual physical contact with me. Those 20 seconds contained no fear, no threats, no pain, no disgust, no trauma, no force, nothing that conventional “wisdom” tells you to believe about child sex. I was 100% willing, even eager, to have this “thing” happen. If I live to 80, I will live 2524608000 seconds, yet 20 of them mapped out the rest of my life, and determined everything about me. There is nothing more powerful, more important, and more significant that that, and yet THAT is exactly what we’re not allowed to talk about.

So I have made a career out of talking about it. Learning about how “it” influenced people, some of whom make my sexual history look like a scene from Mother Superior’s convent on a slow day. And I’m happy to be me … and glad I’m not part of the morality police.
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Old 12-02-2012, 11:05 AM   #10
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I think some forums are concerned with attracting the prying eyes of the government or the appearing to be a safe-haven for pedophiles, which seems to be the case with most forums who allow or encourage discussion of incest. That's all. I love reading your posts, though. They always cause me to consider broadening my thinking. My forum allows and encourages the discussion of incest, it just doesn't allow certain subjects for the entire net to see, because we don't want anything to do with pedophiles. I must admit that I learn something new with every post you make.
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