Does anyone want to talk about men who cheat??

[Orion]

Originally Posted by lingam

So you mean your Cowgirls keep airing their fannies at all times

Keeps the flies away from the BBQ Ribs and Chili.

[pladecalvo]

Originally Posted by Evelyn123

Every boyfriend/husband I ever had cheated. Is this the way it's supposed to be with men? Can any of them be trusted?? I broke up with my last boyfriend three years ago and I'm in no hurry to get into another relationship.

Evelyn

It would be well to remember that the one common denominator in all of your failed relationships is..............you!

[operater1]

girls the best way to make sure your boyfriend ,fiance ,husband stays faithfull is to make sure he cannot have sex with anyone else by making him weak by giving him sex all the time , do you not understand that sex to a man has nothing to do with love it has to do with sex , so how can another women get involved if you are already there. women have this idea that they have the best p*&^%y around and that there would be no reason for your man to go after anything else well prove it to him . act like his personal porn queen and he may not stray

[Brandy777]

Originally Posted by Evelyn123

Every boyfriend/husband I ever had cheated. Is this the way it's supposed to be with men? Can any of them be trusted?? I broke up with my last boyfriend three years ago and I'm in no hurry to get into another relationship.

Evelyn

Well, you can't base your relationships on sex, sex is not the foundation nor is it love. Like someone mentioned previously, are you trying to change 'bad boys'? Are you insecure and maybe the men pick up on this and it pushes them in another direction? Do you support your man in his career choices? Do you cook for him? Do you share common interests?, etc.

Out of all this I believe you're picking up the wrong type of men

[livelychati]

Originally Posted by Brandy777

Well, you can't base your relationships on sex, sex is not the foundation nor is it love. Like someone mentioned previously, are you trying to change 'bad boys'? Are you insecure and maybe the men pick up on this and it pushes them in another direction? Do you support your man in his career choices? Do you cook for him? Do you share common interests?, etc.

Out of all this I believe you're picking up the wrong type of men

Well said!!!

[DJ Prophetic]

"The wrong type of men"... bah.

All men are the same. In the end all men want is a woman that is around to fuck him. A man is willing to put up with your bullshit because you give him steady pussy. When you start piling on more bullshit, you better be piling on more head or your man is going to say fuck this and find someone else that will give him what he wants.

When you first started dating, you fucked a lot. You blew him on the subway, he went down on you in the back of a cab, etc. Slowly but surely, you started having sex less and less. Twice a day, twice a week, twice a month. Because your man started getting attached to you emotionally as well over this time, he doesn't want to leave you and everything you all have worked for.

Around this time, is when he notices that Susie in accounting has always been batting her eyes at him a bit more than the other interns, and basic instict takes over. When you were giving him steady pussy he never noticed Susie from accounting because he was satiated (a pizza always looks better after a camping trip than after a thankgiving dinner), but now that he feels deprived of his only real want in life, he starts batting his eyes back and before you know it, they are wrecking each other's shit on the Xerox machine after hours...

[emilynghiem]

Originally Posted by Evelyn123

Every boyfriend/husband I ever had cheated. Is this the way it's supposed to be with men? Can any of them be trusted?? I broke up with my last boyfriend three years ago and I'm in no hurry to get into another relationship.

Evelyn

Dear Evelyn: You can tell how stable people are, and how well they know themselves by how they perceive their relationship with their parents, which then reflects in their other relationships. The same patterns repeat if you look for them. Don't be afraid to ask. If someone will not tell you their past, that is ALREADY a bad sign to stay away.
* Strong maternal and family relations make for "good communication skills."
* Good relations with fathers and past romantic relations mean good control and perception of relations and handling changes. If someone is not friends with their exes, or former employers, etc. what does that say about how YOU may end up someday!

This applies to you also. If you have unresolved past relations, that can affect how well you perceive how you stand with people and how you manage and balance control with a partner.

So the more you work on yourself, and stabilize and normalize your relationships, how well you distinguish the issues that come from your side vs. the issues that someone else brings to the relationship, you will be more confident and successful in your relationships. You will know your boundaries, how to communicate and enforce your needs equally as your partners, and by having a clear mind and conscience, you will then be able to see if your partner has past issues, and will be able to steer clear of trouble.

Clear your conscience first, clean your slate and make sure you know how you stand. As Shakespeare said, to "thine own self be true" then it follows you can't be "false to any man" nor any man to you. You will be able to see right through!

Yours truly,
Emily

[fettennaMof]

I agree with Myke, but Id have to say that candys not the sort of thing for me. Maybe sushi or some french bread... or a sub from Subway. Im a "meat and starch" sort of guy.

[livelychati]

Originally Posted by fettennaMof

I agree with Myke, but Id have to say that candys not the sort of thing for me. Maybe sushi or some french bread... or a sub from Subway. Im a "meat and starch" sort of guy.

Yes, the sort of a guy that should have not cut the English language classes and that should've stayed in school a little while longer than a lunch break or two as your posts' illiteracy suggests!!!

[Samson]

Originally Posted by DJ Prophetic

"The wrong type of men"... bah.

All men are the same. In the end all men want is a woman that is around to fuck him. A man is willing to put up with your bullshit because you give him steady pussy. When you start piling on more bullshit, you better be piling on more head or your man is going to say fuck this and find someone else that will give him what he wants.
...

No.

Not only has it been my experience, but its been quite clearly studied that men and women will not "in the end" want someone to fuck.

In the end, we want someone sympathetic with whom to talk.